SOCIAL SKILLS TRAINING METHODOLOGICAL GUIDE

Self-esteem and self-concept

A. Definition

The self-esteem is characterised by a positive representation of oneself which is translated, according to partners in different versions: “to love one self”, “to like oneself”, “the self-respect”.

The self-concept is a multi-dimensional construct that refers to an individual's perception of "self" in relation to any number of characteristics, such as academics (and non-academics), gender roles and sexuality, racial identity, and many others. When the self-concept and self-esteem are defective, there is risk of failure and of relational difficulties with the others, and even risks for oneself (“I do not exist any more”). The self-concept and self-esteem are closely interdependent and are to be jointly worked for a blooming of the individual and social success.

B. Working methodology

  • Good example of educators to create an effect of reference for young people.
  • Value young people successes and accept them as they are.
  • Aspects that constitute self-esteem and self-confidence are the behavioural and clothing representation, politeness and cleanliness/hygiene.
  • Find out what students can do; to make sure he/she will be successful. Offer him/her an individual program and match him/her with a business where he/she feels safe. In this way his self-confidence will grow.
  • Involve young people in the preparation and activities for other people (for example the visits of partners in the European projects) in order to support their self-confidence.

C. Difficulties and results

  • Teachers and professionals need and specific training, as well as a constant adaptation of activities due to interpersonal differences.
  • Constantly adaptation of the activities due to the interpersonal differences, different school -background, culture, religion and language and life among pupils.
  • It is necessary to balance the work on social skills, self -esteem and self-concept to the focus needed on tests, exams and subject evaluations.
  • Young people have a distorted image of themselves. The aggressiveness expressed in the relation is a testimony of lack of and self-esteem.
  • Cleanliness/hygiene is a subject difficult to approach with some young people, and remains a real problem to work around of social skills.

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